19 Sutras for Teaching Sanskar to Children

 19 Sutras for Teaching Sanskar to Children

Bal Sanskar means to educate and educate him from birth to adulthood. Children stay with their parents since they are infants. Children are closer to their mothers than to their fathers. They learn many things from their mother, follow and follow.

In our society, mothers are closer to children than fathers, as fathers are busy with earning. Grandparents also stay with some babies. Some may have only one of their grandparents. Babies can also learn some old rituals from their grandparents until they become adults. When both the parents are busy, the children are also assigned to nursery school and Monteshwari school according to today's custom.

When children are entrusted to such institutions at an early age, children may be deprived of certain rituals. As money is not a big issue, it is better if one of the parents stays at home. Especially mothers can be serious about children and take care of them.

19 formulas required for child rites

As much as possible, children should be kept with their parents until they reach adulthood. If nothing happens, you should enroll in a child care institution. But from time to time it is necessary to understand the situation of the children with the organization. For that, you should interact with the responsible person of the organization from time to time. It is necessary to pay attention to the following things for child rites.

Low priority for modern lifestyle: Modern lifestyle can make children stubborn, so it is important to be careful about this. You should make a habit of drinking pure and clean water instead of artificial drinks. Emphasis should be placed on eating homemade bread rather than chocolates and biscuits. Children should be kept away from market food as much as possible.

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Physical development: It is better to teach age-appropriate bikes in places where you can ride a bike and buy a bike. As a result, their physical development becomes easier when they exercise and enjoy and digest food. As the child grows up, the body needs a balanced diet, so attention should be paid to the diet accordingly. They should also be taught to run and jump in their free time. Appropriate games should be played by looking at the geographical structure around the house or nearby.

Mental Development: Children should be asked age and grade wise questions from time to time for their mental development. If you give a wrong answer, you should laugh and ask again. It should be taught in a way that has more attachment to the game of chess than playing chess. Bagchal is also considered the best game for mental development. Avoid playing digital games available on mobile as much as possible. It is important for parents to pay special attention to this as it becomes difficult to get rid of the addiction to playing games on mobile phones and causes physical problems such as neck pain and burning eyes.

Keep away from mobile phones: Today's children are seen to take away mobile phones from their parents and are stubborn. If a call comes from somewhere on a mobile phone in the hands of a child, it can cause problems for the parents when they cut the phone and use the mobile phone in their own way. In fact, giving mobile phones to children is a wrong action.

Don't fight with parents: Arguing with parents in front of children, having random verbal fights or using rude words and low-level words has a high chance of having a negative impact on children's psychology. Therefore, it is necessary to pay special attention to this. Loving the neighborhood children also sends a positive message to your children. If the child's company is not with good friends, parents should seriously consider this and pay attention to minimizing such company.

Education at home: Children should not rely only on schools for education. Parents should also give them more education at home. This is also an important part of child rites. We should try to remove their bad behavior and motivate them to good behavior.

Do not choose only expensive schools: Expensive schools do not mean that you will get quality education. Rather than the nature of the school, they should be admitted to the school only after getting information about the qualification and efficiency of the teachers there.

Avoiding boarders as much as possible: Children who have boarders have different temperaments than children who do not boarders. They have less emotional connection with their parents. Because when they don't stay near their parents, they get into the habit of doing things on their own. There is no doubt that they are stubborn and disobedient and lack a smile.

When parents only give importance to work and children boarder in school, it has a negative effect on them. Parents should think that money is not everything.

Paying attention to child psychology: According to the dictionary, the meaning of psychology is a science or science that analyzes the various thoughts that arise in the mind, the nature of the mind, the state, activities, etc. in detail. Psychology is the science that studies the human mind. The psychology of children is called child psychology. It is the duty of any parent to get information about their children's thoughts, conditions and activities.

Development of positive thinking: In order to minimize the unnatural i.e. negative behavior seen in children, it is necessary for parents to pay special attention to develop positive thinking in them. Parents want their children to be happy You should try to find out by looking at their behavior. If abnormal behavior is seen, they should be reminded. For this, it is important for parents to have a sense of duty.

If the school is nearby, don't take the bus: If the children's school is nearby, they should get used to walking from home to school. In the case of small children, it is advisable to bring them to and from school in a safe way. By doing this, their body will get exercise, their digestive system will be in proper condition and the cost of bus will be saved.

Hygiene: Children should get used to waking up on time in the morning. It is advisable to make rules for regular cleaning after waking up in the morning. Attention should also be paid to cleanliness of children's body and cleanliness of clothes. It is mandatory to brush your teeth after breakfast and dinner. If you try to eat less sugary foods and rinse immediately after eating such things, you will not have problems with your teeth until later.

Safe food: Food should be safe, digestible, healthy and clean not only for children but also for the entire family. You should not feed too much energy-enhancing, fat-rich and protein-rich foods. Because with such food and snacks, children's bodies become fat and look ugly. Some people seem happy that their children are fat. But this thinking is wrong. It is not good to gain more weight than necessary. The body should be tight, fit and sharp. For that, you should eat a balanced diet.

Agility control: If children are stubborn and aggressive, you can change their mentality by giving sweet words.

Teaching creative work: Children can be taught to wash their own clothes, garden or plant plants in the garden according to their ability. It should be used to draw pictures, play music, count numbers. You can also learn to write poetry.

Teaching to eat by yourself: Some mothers even feed their 10-year-old children by themselves. But doing this is not good for children's development. After giving up mother's milk, the child should be taught to eat and drink water by himself.

Teaching manners and greetings: Some children these days do not seem to greet relatives and friends when they come home. Similarly, when parents' friends come and prominent people of the society come to the house, it is less common to greet them. It is better if you can develop the habit of bowing and saluting spontaneously rather than the habit of bowing and saluting only after being told by your parents.

Helping in homework: Parents should also be concerned about school going children whether they do their homework on time or not. Due to our educational system of having to do homework, if they miss out, they will be burdened. So it is better to help with homework on time.

Integrating into the society: If the environment is created for the children to integrate into the society, they will have the opportunity to acquire more knowledge. If they are confined to the house, there is a possibility that they will become lonely later.